Yes, W and I still living together, though SBRs. Kinda hard sometimes, because I wept a bit last night (again) and W knocked on the door, though I didn't let her in. I try to be strong and only show an upbeat, happy person, unfortunatelt she's still in close proximity during my weaker moments. It's almost as if I look forward to getting my own place, because I think my DBing will be more effective.

But, of course, in your case the only way to counter his newfound sociability is to work even harder on GAL, right?. Trust me, once I started getting out, W stepped it up herself, almost as if to try to outdo me. As if they need to prove to themselves that life will be so much happier, even if you are enjoying yourself more. They have to convince themselves, "No, I'm still happier now, even though I could be having fun with my spouse," the foolish, fog-addled dears.


M41 W42
M 12 T 15
S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2
BD 1/2/2013
Living as roommates
Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13