hmmm... I can see how you would feel like that, I guess you are still living together?

Sundays... new 180 for me this week! I typically have anxiety and expectations on Sundays (as it is a work day for us), and get depressed/anxiety and my head mind reads when I cannot reach h on sunday mornings, after knowing hes been out saturday night...he sleeps over at a buddy's house so he can drink (several 180's for him...socializing, staying overnight at friends & not answering his phone till at least lunch, this coming from a guy who cannot sleep and wakes up at 7am every day, would not socialize regardless of how I begged, answers the phone at all hours and always Insisted he was too tired ALL THE TIME to have fun with me/D)does this now EVERY WEEKEND, so it seems . So, the plan for this week was doing something different and shutting myself off too!

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)