OMG NLW, I just can't believe your STXH. I cannot. Also, IMO, no response is necessary to him. He is now where near reality. Let alone empathy and love.

I am so sorry for your S14 having to witness this. Is he better now? Have you been able to to speak to him? What do these WAS expect from our children? To be 'cool' with everything and just get on, without recognizing their hurt and pain and turmoil from their own perspectives??? Oh they make me so angry. It makes me angry that this pain is put onto our children like its a life lesson they are expected to accept.

Keep protecting yourself and your kids as you are. You know what to do. You are amazing.

((((((( )))))))

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home