Papa, you brought a tear to my eye. Now that I have calmed myself and thought I have decided Not to go attempt to get them. There would be a scene and issues of some sort. I have enough evidence already of her violations. It would serve no effective purpose and cause kids more pain.
Gabby, your response is the same as my fiance's on the phone moments ago. I think that may be a "momma thing" (I say that with the utmost respect and hope no offense). DD texted hearing her mother "defend her" on phone (Freudian guilty conscious slip?). I responded she had done nothing wrong and , "I love you". I also texted DS the fact his mother did not want me to take him from her house and I had hoped we could have gone fishing again. I took him fishing yesterday and we watched a guy movie last night during our short time together.
Thank you again. It helps. Focusing on the kids and their well being will guide me through this.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
