I hope you don't feel I was calling you weak because I wasn't. I was simply clarifying how I view cake eating. Your response actually tells me that you are closer to being in the first category. You knew why you were going along with it and you had an idea of when you would have to stop going along with it. You may be at that point now, idk.
Some people view allowing ANY cake eating as weakness and bad. I just don't happen to agree with that. We all have to draw our own lines though so I am glad you are thinking about it.
How are you doing today?
Oh, I made the same mistake with urworthy's new posting name when she changed it and wanted to bash her over the head (she is one super strong lady), until I reread it. Boy was I ever glad I didn't yell at her first. She would have probably bashed me lol.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
