I don't really have any useful advice for you, but I wanted to commend you on your calm, thoughtful responses to your x. Speaking as the children of warring divorced parents, I can tell you that your kids GREATLY appreciate your efforts to spare them from the stresses that an unreasonable parent causes them. Whatever happens, I hope you are able to hold on to your equanimity in the face of your X's abuse. You seem lime one heck of a good dad and I salute you.
M41 W42 M 12 T 15 S10, D9, twin Ds 3 1/2 BD 1/2/2013 Living as roommates Working on D agreement w. mediator 5/13