I had a hard time reconciling my "bond" with my x. I do not feel married to her, but I still deeply love her.. and at times that bothers me. I fear it will hold me back from meeting someone else. Or that I will never feel that kind of bond with anyone like I did with x.
Fear is never a good motivator.
A friend mentioned to me that whomever I am in a new R with will be an Addition instead of a replacement. I like this.... takes the pressure off of it.
I think it's possible to still love your w, but still love others just as deep.
Give it time, you will get there when you are supposed to.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
