My H of 19 y dropped the ILYBININWY Bomb on me 1 month ago. After my initial meltdown I found this forum & the book & was doing 180s & things seemed better. Then he started moving furniture out today & I reverted to begging, crying , pleading - & he was mean & cold. I finally locked myself in my bedroom & gagged myself to stop H & his friend from hearing my sobs. I felt like I made such progress - now disastrous. It was like I was possessed. Has this happened to anyone else? Is there still hope or did I ruin everything?
Me 54 H 53 T 19 M 15 (2nd both), 0 kids, 2 dogs, 1 horse H open heart surg12-12-12 H dropped bomb 3-5-13 H moved to lounge ~3-13-13 H rented house w/friend 4-6-13 H moved out 4-13-13
