Yes, I believe when we can reconcile the past with the present, without regret and without bitterness we find our balance. I am not saying that pangs of regret for what could have been, or what had been, don't occur, but they do not occur outside of love, acceptance and forgiveness, but rather as a whole of what we are.
Grace, I had just posted this morning about my life seeming to be a a holding pattern. The Universe is gathering us in today! Time to take the next step, it seems, for many of us here. Whether it be letting go, giving love, finding acceptance or simply just being.
Very good day I think, even though thoughts are running around in my head lol!