Very well written! My h said staying home means he's denying himself happiness, but that's ok he can be miserable, tighten his belt and deny himself! Those are some really hurtful words for anyone to hear!
I will copy and past this post to help remind me everyday I don't have to except this, I no longer have to pay attention.
My best to you WH, you really are doing great! Thanks for sharing!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!