I was definitely feeling personal hurt earlier that W would be so cavalier about having OM around our S at her house. But I worked through the emotion and feel in a better place now to focus on my son's needs as far as speaking to W about keeping her A separate from our boy. Again thanks for the calm advice cbtdad.

I am still working on detachment, this new scenario really upset me. Refocused now.


Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal