The potential confusion for my S is exactly my concern. There are enough difficulties already with just being S and trying to co-parent in a healthy way. Adding in something like OM spending time with W in front of S is damaging I feel.

Feeling really hurt about this right now. Thanks for the calm advice.

Me-36 W-31
M-7
S-5
BD Dec/12- things were wrong for awhile, head was in the sand

Seeking means: to have a goal
Finding means: to be free, to be receptive, to have no goal