Personally, I think you are not only doing a great job, but you have some very valuable information. For one, did you notice it's not really about you? Her anger and frustration is not because of you necessarily, it's taken out on you. I'm not saying you were perfect or that there isn't any grains of truth in her anger toward you. I'm saying it isn't about you.
Stay away from the relationship talks. Support her decision. Be the best you can be and let the rest sort itself out. It will one way or the other regardless. You can suffer if you want to, but you're seeing that you don't have to. And doing a great job with it. Let her do what she does, recognize you don't like it, but don't dwell on it. It's ok to be hurt. It's not ok to be resentful or stay angry. See how that works?
In the end, she may leave anyway; you can't control that. But make sure she's leaving the best man around if she does.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
