In it, Someone else said it - your H is a raving lunatic right now. He is not in his right mind to have said these things to you.

Mine is also spouting utter madness.

It's part of the process that some of them seem to go through (monster). However, it's almost impossible to deal with.

I think we need to shut it right out. No-one can cope with this; it's too hard.

Just focus on protecting yourself from his madness right now. Give him plenty of space to spin.