Time to roll up the sleeves

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My .02 is that there are consequences to all actions, good and bad. A consequence of divorce is that there are some decisions that are no longer an option.

Ya. You could agree to move and another BD could occur, you could be back together etc etc,, but why open that new fiction book when you haven't even closed this one?

I don't know about you, but for me, the what if game never gives me any peace of mind.

Hi IO, thanks. I need opinions like these to help work out on my head what's a good and bad idea.

I do question - is this a major 180? If wife feels trapped because I she thinks I would not entertain this before and now I am willing to - on the scale of 180's it's gotta be up there. OR does it come across as desperate?