I am following PF's sitch closely as we have identical issues on M and with W's. I picked up on what you said here
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And takes your mind OFF of her
Is the point of GAL to show W both that you are not needy, that you are getting on with life AND so that you don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself and thinking too much a out things?
For example my W is away with kids. This is the first time I have been home alone for this long for at least 9 years. Last night I went out to a mall late night shopping just to be around people (even if they are strangers) to make sure I was not sat around thinking.
Sorry PF I am asking this for both of us, hope you don't think I am hijacking your thread!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.