I.AM, I agree with everything you say except the part about being a "Lone Wolf". I know that I am not alone. I have tremendous support from friends and family. Most of them share my values and are very encouraging about what I am doing.
In fact, there where several times when I was so frustrated, that I just wanted to file myself and get it over. my friends talked me down and got me back on track. I specifically remember a discussion with my MIL where she talked about the sacrifice christ made for us, while he was being rejected. She then told me how much she loved me, how proud she was of me and then prayed with me.
The DB approach appears to recommend that we isolate ourselves and deal with this alone. I don't think I could do that.
Please know that you are not alone. I will say a quick prayer for you and Nero.
