Thanks FY. I had actually never thought of the pursuit explanation as you stated it.
"The No Pursuing rule is there because the common tendency of most LBS's, (especially early on) is to over pursue, which drives their partner away. It doesn't mean we can't ever reach out and attempt to connect, (with sex or otherwise) but some seem to interpret it that way."
That makes so much sense to me now. I definitely did over pursue initially. Thanks again.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.