Amen PF! I have been afraid to do just about anything. That is not me. I am fortunate to be able to say that we have (had) a great sex life. I had no trouble initiating but now I am scared to touch her. When we pass in the hall I make sure we don't touch. I say excuse me to get around her instead of placing a hand on her waist or shoulder to slide by her. Acting this way seems ridiculous. W has also said things are wierd between us. I just think to myself "really"!
Your statements about fear and your "afraid of's" sound so familiar to me.
My W is also concerned with her appearance and her value in general (alot to do with work).
PF, I really want to thank you for your post. It definitely spoke to me. I have been much more upbeat today, even around W. Seemed halfway normal for a time tonight. I attribute your post to my PMA today. It really it home. Thank you again.
Going to the spring football game tomorrow. Tailgating with some friends. Really looking forward to it. W is working tomorrow. I will be with my girls all day. W says she will join us at the tailgate. I have set the tailgate up with everyone (definitely a 180). Press on!
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
