So I get a letter from her L to state that W will not change ownership of her car from joint unless I pay for the vehicle. $37k on the balance of the loan. Also is asking for $10k loan from me so she can put deposit on new home. My L laughed. $47k in total to front her???? Also states that they want instead of court for custody to do binding arbitration hearing with their recommended arbitrator who is a known women's rights crusader. This would include me, xW and arbitrator in a room for a day or two with no counsel present. Ummmmm....no. Our reply is 'no' to all and for her to secure her own financing, change ownership fof the car or sell it....that is the law. If she gets into accident or hurts someone with the vehicle and is sued, then I am liable too. No way but nice try. Learning to protect myself and my rights. She certainly is not thinking of the kids but rather herself as has been the case for a loooong time.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.