Raine, Congratulations on the birth of your son! I'm sure he's as cute as can be. I hope that you and your little boy are doing well.
As for your h, allow him to do whatever is necessary to help you and your family out while he's back at home. Take advantage of his assistance while you can!
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
