thought you might want to THANK GOD or the universe for the apology your wife gave you.
IT's more than most here, ever hear...seriously.
And you must GAL more. I know you said sometime this month you'll look into sailing and that's a start. But I know I posted to you my GAL list and that was in frickin' Alaska's interior and included the winter at times.
I was BUSY and you are not.
WHen you take those trips, go bowling if you have to (my last resort -long story but I would NOT stay in one hotel room all night if my obsessing began. Time for a movie, interaction with PEOPLE, etc.
The main thing in my opinon is to meet new people. People who are meeting the NEW IMPROVED YOU, which helps you reinforce the changes you are making and the man you are becoming.
And takes your mind OFF of her.
Who cares if she took off her ring again and or listened to hard rock? I mean, if it bothers the kids or scares them, ask them to tell HER that.
OTherwise, you've just got too much time on your hands. YOU control that, however.
good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
