Your doing great, your so new to this! My BD was 11/12 and I am just now starting (slowly) to make changes. As so many have said it is a roller coaster ride and marathon, so hang on, give it your best and learn from your mistakes, but mostly listen to the vets on here and act on their advice(listening to what i am telling you...)
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy