Ugh I wish I could stop reading online about separations...most see it as a prelude to a divorce. I gotta find some success stories on here with a WAH before I lose it. Staying positive is not working right now!
This bothered me too, a lot, but then I figured out I would have been D by now if my W didn't leave, so our S have given me time (not that I am using it wisely right now, but trying). I think if you want your M and don't give up it doesn't matter if your living together or not.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy