Originally Posted By: Shiss
Ugh I wish I could stop reading online about separations...most see it as a prelude to a divorce. I gotta find some success stories on here with a WAH before I lose it. Staying positive is not working right now!

This bothered me too, a lot, but then I figured out I would have been D by now if my W didn't leave, so our S have given me time (not that I am using it wisely right now, but trying). I think if you want your M and don't give up it doesn't matter if your living together or not.


M46,W41
D16,D18
M22,T25
BD 11/12
W moved out 01/13
Piecing 10/13
Divorced 01/15
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy