Second, "alt?" I don't get it! I want to be part of it!
Third, I think the final push is different from everyone, and sometimes is not a definite moment, but something that happens over time.
I love my now XH, but I am aware that being w him would not be good for me at this point in our lives, so does that mean I've moved on? I think moving on is being OK without your S. It's completely detaching. Am I there yet? Not quite. But I'm getting there....
