I made wife laugh more than she has done in ages by a comment I made earlier, that I didn't even try to be funny about. Kind of like how I used to make her laugh. This was a boost for me.
W & Kids are away, and W very chatty on text. Think she has had a few, as the texts were almost as if we were back a year or so. Nothing like that to play with the mind!
Bad points
W continues to be looking to be irritated by me. Anything goes, just reacting to the wrong words can cause it. For instance W said something today and my face must have had a confused or unsure look to it, because W said - 'what's that look for?'. Its like she is always looking for emotion in my face, I think its because she does not believe anything I am doing is true, and therefore is trying to catch me out. I must get better at hiding emotion. Any suggestions?
W mentioned own place, own things, and is stockpiling for her new house. When ever or where ever that may be. I did not react, or get involved in discussion, just let W say her thing and I smiled back.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.