What a great road trip Ruby. I think I am starting to understand your friendship with H. Its a place where there isnt hurt or judgement. It a place where you are accepting him for he is, and the situation at the time.
You are fortunate that your H does not see this as a threat or pressure to him, which most WAS see when the LBS is being friendly. I think it shows a deep trust he has in you. He is one lucky fool.
I like your GAL tomorrow night. I want to come! I am a sucker for Abba! lol
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home