Hi Turtle I think its good you are seeing advice and protection with L. As we all know, we have no idea where this will all lead us, but we do know, as Cadet says, knowledge is power. Getting informed is a huge step in taking care of YOU.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home