Waw and divorce filed. What to do next?

[Pumpkinhead]

Honestly I'm not 100% sure why W walked away. My take is that we just started to grow apart. Same story as most. Work to much, didn't call when I'm running late. Not planning nice things to do for birthdays and anniversaries. Being short with each other and petty.I was taking her for granted. Felt like our relationship was in a rut same thing over and over for the past 2 years. Coming home, eating, talking maybe 2 mins them off to our own little worlds till bed time. Her on her laptop on FB, mine was plying online games. Sex got boring and very sparse. We stopped doing a lot of things together during the week. On the weekends we did still go out and do things and had good times.

If I had to guess her reason: W says it was because I was happy where I was in life and didn't want anything more from life. I had no drive or ambition to become something she needed me to be. "Better job", Go Back to School, make more money, stuff like that.

I'm still working on what I want out of life. What I enjoyed and made me happy before our marriage. I'm going back to school to finish a bachelors degree so I can support myself and my family with hopefully a better job. So my next R will be different in many ways. I'm finally getting around to doing the things I needed to do for me for years that I put off. When the dust settles I will be a better man regardless of whom I am with.

What I want out of this?:
This the website or this the divorce?

From the website: I was hoping just to get some feedback and answers to others marriage problems that I could relate to. Maybe find the right way to get my M back on track. To hear success stories from people in my situation.

From the divorce: Not to let me slip back into my old ways. Just get by and let life pass me. I really want to stay focused on enjoying my life and my family everyday.