W called me today in the middle of work. Notified me that as of today she would no longer be including my laundry with that of the rest of the family
She was still doing your laundry? I would have thought you would have taken it over after this:
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She cut me off there, and said, "You have never done anything to make anything easier for me. You saying that is so insulting!"
I know you mentioned that you make dinner a few times a week and supervise the kids when they clean up the kitchen, but now is the time to really step things up. After she made the above statement you should have taken the laundry over. And then when she told you she was going to quit doing your laundry, that was another opportunity to step up. You should have replied with "you're right, I need to do my own laundry, and I think it's about time I did the rest of the family's as well. Why don't you go over with me how you like it done and I'll take over from there."
The thing is, your W doesn't want to wash your socks and undies. She's already got to be a mom to your kids, she doesn't want to be your mom too.
