I wish I had that problem to worry about! Unfortunately my W is getting her needs met elsewhere. I've tried to hug her twice in the last month and both times not even a hug back. So I won't try again. It's one of the hardest and hurtful things I'm dealing with because "physical touch" is my LL.
This was one of the earliest signs when I knew I should have turned my life around. Beginning in September of last the ML had pretty much stopped. I think we made love once in September and then once again on 10/26 our 5 year anniversary. That was the last time:(
Hurtful just talking about it


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it