Thank you everyone. We have two MC sessions before her trip to Milwaukee, and my decision is, unless she brings something up that would cause me to question her, I am going to leave it alone and see where our two sessions take us. I know the first sessions in Gottmann's method include some scratching off the scabs (before the positive, moving forward stuff) so it could come up them. She could bring it up for all I know.

I also have thought more about it and it is entirely possible that it is just a fantasy on her end, as this guy is such an outrageous fit. If so, that will also likely come out in therapy.

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"