no i am not really looking for intimacy I do know that he has had several partners I just feel after 9 months of back and forth maybe i should start putting myself out there. maybe that will make him realize he wants to come back because right now he does what ever he wants and calls and says he misses me but still dates and sleeps with other people

I mean I don't want a divorce but he is not making a serious move toward reconciliation either

m: 32 H:33
T:7
M:4


7/12 says he might want out
8/12 find out about ow he wants a D
9/12 he says he loves me not here wants me back
9/12 he pull away
11/12 still separated