Im communicating poorly- im sorry. Im trying to say that ideally you feel like your in control of a pace that feels good to you.
I use the racecar because I felt, at the time, that I was NOT in control and it was only heading in one direction- Divorce. The decisions I was making were reactionary because I was so desperate not to lose her.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
