"SA, I also find the ML part interesting. Early in my sitch we continued to ML. She has said "you know, we have never had problems there." However recently it has really backed off. It has been over a month now which is a really long time for us. Actually except for after childbirth we have never gone that long. Not even close. I just don't know how to approach it with her. I think that she would be ok with it but she doesn't want to initiate it and give a false sense of hope to me (mind reading) and I don't initiate because I don't know how to anymore. HA! That sounds crazy. We have no physical contact now so I don't know how to really engage her to even approach the subject of ML.
I say if you can continue to ML then do. There is a connection there that you can't get any other way. I think it is a good sign. Not looking so good for me right now."
After posting it, I went back and read what I had written. My thought was, if we both still want to ML (I think) then why has it been over a month. So I decided to try to change that last night. She came home after eating with a friend and I asked her to come over to me. I hugged her and yada yada yada we ML.
Now I am sure some on here will totally disagree with doing that. Pursuit! And to be honest, I am not sure it was the right thing to do. But, after reading what I posted earlier it seemed to me like I should try.
The down side (I guess) is that she still slept in the other room last night.
Any and all comments on this are welcomed. Thanks.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
