I asked earlier in the week if she was interested in tailgating this weekend. She never really answered. So this morning I started messaging people on my own to see if they were interested in going. W asked me today if I was taking D4 to a bday party Saturday. I told her that I was trying to get people to tailgate this weekend. She then said that she wanted to go. We also got invited to a wedding (a friend of mine that she doesnt know) and she said she didn't know them. I said it is ok if you don't want to go but I need to reply if only 1 or 2 people are coming. She acted surprised that I would go without her but she still never gave me an answer. In the past there is probably no way that I would have gone without her.
This is good, shows W that you will move on. You life and happiness is not contingent on her
Originally Posted By: Grizz
Last night she asked if anyone wanted to go to the mall with her. Not sure if it was meant for me or just the kids so I delayed any answer until the kids answered. They said no so I just said I will stay with them. I probably wouldn't have gone anyway even if the kids wanted to go.
Also good, give her space.
I also am experiencing the difficulty of detaching while living together. Extremely difficult, especially since my W has starting acting as if things are OK. Like you, I think I'm much better than 3 months ago., but also need to work on this.
