I guess I'm so scared that I will not be a good enough parent to get them through this frown
You are doing everything you can..you are a "good enough" parent, you are a great parent...you listen to them, validate them, get them IC...do not doubt this.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm