lol, thank you KD...I sometimes don't feel so good at it inside...
CB, one thing here...
7. I have subsribed to Mort Fertel's marriage max daily feed and as a result have: a. Got her a nice card for Easter. b. Put a card in her car last week telling her I loved her.
I did EXACTLY the same thing Aug 2011 after online activities were discovered, and I bought the whole program, when I implemented some of the techniques, it backfired and annoyed the living crap out of W...pushed her away (see the 37 rules above)...the Fertel program is not appropriate, imo, at this point...even his program says to back off sometimes if appropriate...I think the Fertel method is best for if/when a reconciliation happens or she comes out of her tunnel...until then it's sitting in a drawer in my work office...lol.
Your mileage may vary, of course... Hang in there... T^2
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