Would you believe her if she told you that she really had no emotional attachment to this guy and wasn't planning on meeting him and possibly having a PA?[/quote]

Great question! Yes, I think I would believe her. And honestly, I think I would still continue forward with the counseling, but it might be a deal breaker so I guess my thought is that before she goes to Milwaukee is the critical time? Might be too late after that?

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"