The more you post, the more it is starting to sound more like MLC. Or at least more severe transition (without consideration for consequences, which often is the differentiator between MLC and transition).
Again, there is nothing you can do to stop her if she is going to have a PA or if she is EA, and pressure while in MLC will make her hide even more.
Again, what is your boundary? If you can not deal with this, then state your boundary (no need to indicate why you believe there is an A) and then go full LRT... *shrug*
