I am not sure what to do with this information, other than to ask her the question I have not as of yet as to whether anyone else is involved. This guy is ten years younger and married with a kid on the way (saw on his FB) so it seems rediculous, but my gut is telling me this is tied in. Do I ask the question about him? Do I ask generically if there is another man? Do I keep my mouth shut and wait for the counsellor to bring it up next week?
One other BIG related fact I forgot. Two of her three best friends have gone through divorces in the past three years. One was married to a surgeon who had about 10 affairs on her but she has a huge support payment, has moved to, you guessed it, Milwaukee, and is who she is seeing in a couple weeks. This friend has talked about how happy she is now, she is in grad school, etc. Her other friend who divorced was married to a guy that was a nice guy but she didn't respect him as a provider and he was an alcoholic. She has now reconnected with a HS old flame who is independantly wealthy and they travel a lot and he take good care of her. The grass is being painted as very green.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
