I agree I have to have a plan, but that's what I'm trying to figure out here. MC won't prep with me, but isn't that me trying to control the situation anyways?? I don't want to be that woman again!
What are my other options? Cancelling appointment when he was actually agreeable to meet seems like that's sending the wrong message to H.
Okay you guys helped me see that my only option is to go and be as open as possible and to just allow H to get it out if he's able to.
There is a Retrv weekend in a couple weeks near me, but that seems like a huge leap in R from hardly speaking, to strained co-parenting, to still texting OW, then Let's go to Marriage weekend!
I don't know much about Retrv, is it worth a try asking H if he'll go so soon? Also, it seems to be a Christian based program and H is an atheist. Is the training totally religious based? If so, he'd laugh at me for even suggesting it.
