Wife said she was done!

[SemperFi00]

^^^^^ A much better you is absolutely a good thing!

Have you thought about what you think is best for the boys and how you would like to present that as an alternative? Forgive me if you have said this already, but have you consulted a L?

I know it took me a long time to do that and I felt guilty about it (still do at times) but it was helpful. And just because you talk to someone doesn't mean that you have to move forward with any action......