Thanks SemperFi00, all this happened after she spoke with a councilor. She brought up this topic.

She was quite clear that there is no hope for us and has no intentions on working in this relationship. Too much hurt she says.

She created a co parenting plan that i dont agree with so she is going to a lawyer to see what she can do to prevent me from having 50/50 with the boys. This has to be my worst fear coming true.

I have applied most of these DB techniques but its not looking good for any resolution. The good thing is that I have become a much better me.


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.