If she is having a PA what happens to you? Do you want to continue? Some just cant get past it and know they will never forgive.
Here is what you can do. Take this time and invest in you- find you- do what YOU want to do- Live YOUR life
You need to give her space and maybe shell decide she likes the steps you are taking and want to come back- If you force her or guilt her it will make things worse
read the rules daily and invest in you!
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13