In December, she started fanatically watching what she was eating, working out like crazy, and stopped having any wine or beer on weeknights (we used to frequently sit down with one to end the day and catch up). Result is she is down 24 pounds and looks amazing. I have always been attracted to her, but she was down on herself as her weight had crept up a bit.
She also bought tickets to Pink and went with her best friend a month ago. For weeks before, that was literally all that she played at home. Again, obsessive.
Also, last few months, she has had a very short fuze with our kids and me. Normal stuff (socks on the floor in the kids room) would set her off and she was mad I wasn't supporting her more, but I felt it was really having an effect on our kids and told her privately.
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
