mrtwopointfour, I feel like you have a camera on in my house and have documented my last three weeks (weight loss, social media, possible OM, "I hate everything here and need to get away", etc.! I will post my sitch and definitely need help as well.
It has been a while since I posted here, we were a long-time SSM, but things had improved in that over the past few years (My HD decreased and she became a bit less LD), and on March 24th, just before bed I heard "We need to talk" and my world came apart.
Sorry you are here too brother.
Sorry to hear that. Post away it would be good to hear whatever you want to share. The more I think about it the more I believe it's MLCfor my W but I know that does not change what I need to do for myself. It's the 'epiphany' bit that gets to me. One week we are all fine and we are investing in future family purchases, having family holidays, romantic meals out, talking about growing old together - all that stuff. The next W returns from w/e away with a friend and is an alien. It's like a switch had been flicked. W says she had a breakdown. I believe this, just don't believe the reasons she has, that have convinced her why this has happened. It's much deeper than she can see at the moment, but the reasons she has laid claims to on the surface, appear to be driving the 'I hate my life as it is, must get a new one, I have never loved you, why did I marry you, you have done so many things wrong, I can never have feelings for you again, I'm in love with an OM etc etc!'
It's like you want to shake them out of it. Not advisable i am very sure
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
