Advina, thank you for spelling it all out like that... that is something I can understand & follow. I will try to do as you asked, as it is what is good for me.
//"what am I missing?"//
I am missing a lot. I miss everything. Not sure I understand what you are suggesting here. Please explain. Tx.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)