Nothing to add Shiss - just checking in...... Certainly understand the pain and frustration and feel for you. You're getting good advice - as hard as it is to hear sometimes.....
Thoughts and prayers are with you!!
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
Quick question...Anytime H brings up D and filing he always goes "I guess I'll be the bad guy". Is this a trick to get me to file? Obviously I don't want a D.
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
Quick question...Anytime H brings up D and filing he always goes "I guess I'll be the bad guy". Is this a trick to get me to file? Obviously I don't want a D.
see danielf thread and AS last post. Listen and validate.
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
Guys what do you do if your spouse shows up and wants to talk logistics of a D? Do you say, ok and let them go ahead with it and not make any decisions? What's the best route to go?
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
Good question and one that I was asking a few weeks back when my W kept discussing splitting assets, what house she liked etc.
Maybe have a look at my threads and see what others said.
I've not been through that yet but from what people have said the best thing to do is say something like: ' I don't want us to divorce, but I do want you to be happy. And if divorce is what you feel will make you happy I will support you with that.'
Try not to resist but a the same time do not do H job for him. He is pushing the D let him do the leg work. Just for your own peace of mind seek legal advice for yourself so you know what to expect, what your rights are etc.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
Thanks 2.4, what if he wants to discuss dividing up marital property and what to do with the house? Should I let him know to have his lawyer draw it up and send it to me so I can have my L review?
Me 29 H 28 M 9 T 11 No kids 2 dogs H moved in with parents 3/21/13 H wants a D 4/2/13 D Filed 4/5/13 Served 4/17/13
