X demands full custody because I'm engaged, Part 2

[sleeper]

I awoke this AM with question of whether to go for full custody or enforcement of what was the status quo (joint shared custody). Her violation of the court order and actions that have visibly upset the children (one of DD's teachers contacted me concerned something was upsetting DD Tuesday AM after X took them Monday after school and then DS was in tears Wednesday evening).

I meet with the L in two hours and will seek his "counsel".